So here it is. Water is the element of emotions, the soul and of dreaming. The more we come into the complete understanding of this, the more we can align ourselves with the water element. The more we align ourselves with the water element, the better we become at dreaming. Check out my youtube video on Dream Walking at http://www.youtube.com/trentdeerhorn .
Someone asked me the other day if having an erotic dream about someone is considered to be dream stalking. The answer to that question is a little complicated. Dreaming is not fantasizing. Fantasy is an escape from reality for stress relief (clubbing your boss over the head with a sledge hammer), for entertainment (Hey, my super hero name is Aquafart!), or as a way of accessing the day dream aspect of the dream weave. The latter can blend into the dream time action.
Not everyone has lucid dreaming capabilities. So to find oneself in an erotic dream when you have not directed yourself to dream that usually means that you are working out some other issues that have nothing to do with the other person or persons in the dream. That does not mean that you aren't necessarily sharing the dream with the other person, but that is more rare. If you are, it may mean that they are dream stalking you, but that is also rare.
If you went into the dream with the intent of having an erotic moment with someone you know, or know of, then this becomes the shady area of dream stalking. Better to just keep that stuff to the fantasy level and not take it into the dream level. That way you are not hurting anyone. After all, there are no thought police.....yet. Sometimes a wet dream is simply a wet dream. There is no need to over analyse it or drive yourself crazy with guilt and shame. We get enough guilt and shame on a daily basis without doing that to ourselves anyway.
And yes, straight folks sometimes have homosexual and lesbian dreams. This is also normal. This is about the masculine and feminine energies aligning with each other within. It means nothing more than that. To get all bent out of shape about something like that is to once again twist oneself into knots. Believe it or else, sometimes homosexual and lesbian people have STRAIGHT DREAMS! It goes both ways. So not to worry folks, it is all good.
Okay, so I have probably tweaked a lot of triggers for people with this one, but what the heck...it needed to be written.
Blessed Be
Trent
http://youtube.com/trentdeerhorn
www.deerhornshamanic.com
1 comment:
For far too long, human sexuality has been the playground for those who wish us harm. Has any one human being alive today experienced guilt-free, shame-free, healthy sex, or expressed their own sexuality in a way that harms no one, without it first being sifted and filtered through the oppressive and suppressive cultural and religious opinions and declarations to which we as a people are daily subjected? I'd go so far as to say that not one of us has.
Thank you, Trent, for posting this.
I agree - it needed to be said.
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